Wedding questions · 16 answers · updated 30 October 2026
Where to start, what to book first, how many guests and how long it really takes.
Save-the-date five to six months out, earlier for a destination wedding. Have the card designed five months ahead, start distributing printed cards three to four months before and finish at least six weeks out; outstation guests need six to eight weeks. Digital and video invites go two to three months before, with a reminder three weeks out.
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Open with the invocation, Shree Ganeshaya Namah, Ik Onkar or Bismillah, then the hosts, often 'with the blessings of' the elders, who 'request the pleasure of your company' at the wedding of the couple, with parents' names. List each function with date, time and venue, the baraat time, dress code and RSVP, and close with a 'with best compliments' page naming siblings and family.
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Count households, not guests: one card per family usually covers three to four people and trims the list by 15–20%. Add 10–15% extra for late additions, keepsakes and addressing mistakes, then round up to the printer's slab of 100, because 310 cards often costs the same as 400.
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Start from the symbol and palette: Ganesh and gold, Ik Onkar, Bismillah calligraphy. Choose the paper weight (250–300 GSM), then the finish: digital print, foil, emboss, laser-cut or a padded box. Keep one main card plus an insert per function, add a QR code to the digital invite, and allow three to four weeks for printing.
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Choose a templated video (₹1,200–6,000) or a custom caricature or animated one (₹8,000–25,000) from an Indian invite platform, or ask your pre-wedding photographer, who often bundles a WhatsApp invite. Keep it 30–60 seconds, vertical for WhatsApp status, under 16 MB, with the hook in the first three seconds and screenshot-able details at the end.
Indian Wedding Invitations: What 100 Cards Cost, What to Write, How Many to Order and When to Send →
Agree the total budget and guest range with both families. Confirm the planner, then the venue and date together, 14–18 months out for peak season. Book the photographer, sangeet entertainment and room blocks next, then décor, catering and outfits 6–9 months out. Send invitations 3–4 months ahead and lock the run sheet in the final month.
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Start with both families' must-invite lists, count households rather than names, and sort everyone into three tiers: must, should and could. Agree the cap before the venue, because every guest is rooms multiplied by nights multiplied by plates. Keep the third tier as the reserve for when the first two decline.
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For a peak-season destination wedding between November and February, start 14–18 months out; iconic venues book 12–16 months ahead. A city wedding can be planned in 6–9 months, and six months is workable off-peak. Confirm the planner first, then venue and date together, because every other line hangs from them.
Wedding planning timeline — what to do in every month before your India wedding →
Shagun ends in 1 because a round number is complete and the extra rupee keeps the blessing growing. The usual bands: ₹501–1,100 for a colleague or acquaintance, ₹1,100–2,100 for a friend, ₹2,100–5,100 for cousins, and ₹11,000 and up for close family. At a destination wedding, ₹2,100–5,100 is fine; you already paid to travel.
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Date and budget first, then the venue and room block, then the vendors who book out earliest: photographer, videographer and bridal makeup artist. After that come décor, catering, mehendi, music, outfits, invitations, guest travel and the run sheet for each function.
For a city wedding or an off-peak date, yes, with compromises: the top venues and photographers for peak winter dates will already be gone, and couture orders need 6–8 months. Book venue and date together in week one, photographer and sangeet entertainment in week two, send digital invites by week four and skip the pre-wedding shoot or keep it local.
Wedding planning timeline — what to do in every month before your India wedding →
Budget and guest range with both families first, then the planner, then venue and date together (14–18 months out for peak season), then the room block. Next the photographer and sangeet entertainment at 10–14 months, décor, catering and outfits at 6–9 months, invitations at 3–4 months, and the run sheet in the final month.
Wedding planning timeline — what to do in every month before your India wedding →
Yes. Our Indian wedding checklist is built as a month-by-month sheet, with a downloadable budget planner PDF that uses the same split we benchmark real weddings against. Keep one tab for quotes, one for payments, one for the guest list by household and one per function, and update it every time something is signed.
Choose a venue that is full with 50, a boutique heritage hotel, a villa or a 20–30-room resort, so the wedding does not look thin. Hold two functions, not five, spend what you saved on rooms and food per guest, and keep the pheras and a long dinner at the centre. Under 100 guests, venues quote case by case, so get three dated proposals.
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Our working rule across the weddings we plan: 70–80 percent of invited households turn up to a home-city wedding and 50–65 percent to a destination wedding, lower when guests must fly or take leave. Count households rather than names, because one card covers three to four guests. Lock the per-plate guarantee at your realistic floor six to eight weeks out, after the RSVP deadline.
Indian Wedding Cost by Guest Count: 100, 150, 200 and 300 Guests, Honestly Priced →
Yes, though their job has changed: fewer guests post publicly, so the hashtag now mostly helps the couple find guest photos and reels afterwards. One hashtag for the whole wedding beats one per function. Check it is not already in use, print it on the invite and the welcome signage, and keep it short enough to type at a sangeet.
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